When Shabana Azmi spoke about not having kids with husband Javed Akhtar: "Not being able to have children, in a sense, made..."

In a candid conversation with Simi Grewal in 2000, Shabana Azmi discussed how not having children affected her outlook on marriage and her career. Married to Javed Akhtar since 1984, Shabana is celebrated for her enduring relationship with him, marked by mutual respect and affection. She also shares a close bond with Javed's children, Farhan Akhtar and Zoya Akhtar, from his first marriage to Honey Irani. Over the years, Shabana has spoken openly about her experience of not having children, approaching the subject with openness and resilience.

Embracing and focusing on career

Shabana revealed that while she initially expected disappointment over not becoming a mother, she was "amazed" at how easily she accepted the reality. She acknowledged that not having children allowed her to devote more time to her work and personal interests, as motherhood can be profoundly demanding. "Not being able to have children, in a sense, made the choices much easier because I could give so much more of my time because I think motherhood is very demanding," she shared.

Adapting to life without children

When asked if not having children was a "major disappointment," Shabana expressed her surprise at how smoothly she adapted. She had once believed that motherhood was a given privilege, but after coming to terms with her situation, she chose not to dwell on it. "Once I realized I couldn’t have kids, I didn’t let it linger over and make me unhappy. I just packed my bags and carried on from there and was very grateful for many other things that I could do," she added.

The question of adoption

On the topic of adoption, Shabana was clear in her stance. "I never wanted to adopt a child. No," she stated. She elaborated that her close relationship with Farhan and Zoya fulfilled her need for a connection with the younger generation. She appreciated their ability to engage in stimulating conversations and valued their independence, which she found enriching and fulfilling.

Relationship with Farhan and Zoya

Regarding Farhan and Zoya's reaction when she married their father, Shabana mentioned that they were "too little" at the time to have any significant concerns or resistance. Her relationship with them has grown over the years, with Shabana often speaking of the enriching and fulfilling bond she shares with them. This connection has provided her with the joy and engagement she might have otherwise sought through motherhood.

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